How Shivon Zilis Operated as Elon Musk’s OpenAI Insider
- by Wired
- May 01, 2026
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As the first
week of trial in Musk v. Altman comes to a close, one person has emerged as a critical behind-the-scenes manager of communications and egos in OpenAIâs early years: Shivon Zilis.
A longtime employee of Musk and the mother to four of his children, Zilis joined OpenAI as an adviser in 2016. She later served as a director of its nonprofit board from 2020 until 2023 and has worked as an executive at Muskâs other companies, Neuralink and Tesla.
When asked about the nature of his relationship with Zilis in court, Musk offered several answers. At one point, he called her a âchief of staff.â Later, a âclose adviser.â At another point, he said âwe live together, and sheâs the mother of four of my children,â though Zilis said in a deposition that Musk is more of a regular guest and maintains his own residence. Last September, Zilis told OpenAIâs attorneys that she became romantic with Musk around 2016 after she had become an informal adviser to OpenAI. They had their first two children in 2021, she said.
But OpenAIâs lawyers have made the case in witness testimonies and evidence that her most important role, as it pertains to this lawsuit, is being a covert liaison between OpenAI and Musk, even years after he left the nonprofitâs board in February 2018.
âDo you prefer I stay close and friendly to OpenAI to keep info flowing or begin to disassociate? Trust game is about to get tricky so any guidance for how to do right by you is appreciated,â Zilis wrote in a text message to Musk on February 16, 2018, days before OpenAI announced he was leaving the board. Musk responded, âClose and friendly, but we are going to actively try to move three or four people from OpenAI to Tesla. More than that will join over time, but we wonât actively recruit them.â
When asked about this exchange on the witness stand, Musk said he âwanted to know whatâs going on.â
In the same text thread, Musk wrote, âThere is little chance of OpenAI being a serious force if I focus on Tesla AI.â Zilis reaffirmed him, saying: âThere is very low probability of a good future if someone doesnât slow Demis down,â referring to Demis Hassabis, the leader of Google DeepMind, who Musk has said he didnât trust to control a superintelligent AI system. âYou donât realize how much you have an ability to influence him directly or otherwise slow him down. I think you know Iâm not a malicious person, but in this case it feels fundamentally irresponsible to not find a way to slow or alter his path.â
Roughly two months later, in an email from April 23, 2018, Zilis updated Musk on OpenAIâs fundraising efforts and progress on a project to develop an AI that could play video games. In the same message, she said she had reallocated most of her time away from OpenAI to his other companies, Neuralink and Tesla, but told him, âIf youâd prefer I pull more hours back to OpenAI oversight please let me know.â
Almost a year earlier, in the summer of 2017, OpenAIâs cofounders had started negotiating changes to the organizationâs corporate structureâMusk wanted control of the company to start out. In an email from August 28, 2017, Zilis wrote to Musk that she had met with OpenAI president Greg Brockman and cofounder Ilya Sutskever to discuss how equity would be divided up in the new company. She summarized points from the meeting, including that Brockman and Sutskever thought one person shouldnât have unilateral power over AGI, should they develop it. Musk wrote back to Zilis, âThis is very annoying. Please encourage them to go start a company. Iâve had enough.â
The negotiations continued into the fall, and Zilis continued acting as a trusted confidant for both sides. In a September 20, 2017, email thread in which Sutskever told Altman and Musk his reservations about allowing Musk to control OpenAI, Zilis is copied.
Two days later, Zilis wrote to Musk that she had talked with Altman, Brockman, and Sutskever about their commitment to maintaining OpenAIâs nonprofit structure and recapped their perspectives on the matter. Around that time, Zilis also handled operations tasks, such as getting bids for security guards at the office building OpenAI shared with Neuralink, emails show.
Once Musk officially left OpenAIâs board in February 2018, Zilis continued acting as a liaison between him and the organizationâs leaders for years. On Wednesday, Musk testified that Zilis never shared any sensitive information about OpenAI with him that she was not authorized to disclose.
While she was telling Musk about what was happening at OpenAI, Zilis was also giving Altman advice about managing his relationship with the Tesla CEO. On October 23, 2022, Altman received an angry text from Musk after he found out that OpenAI was raising new funding from Microsoft at a $20 billion valuation. Altman sent a screenshot of the text to Zilis, asking for advice about how to respond. âCall if youâd like additional context, but overall recommendation is donât text back immediately,â Zilis said.
On February 9, 2023, shortly after Musk had purchased Twitter, Altman texted Zilis again, this time asking, âGood idea for me to tweet something nice about Elon?â Musk had just purchased Twitter. A few days later, Altman posted on X that âsociety underestimates how much it owes Elon for raising the collective ambition level at a time when optimism for the future was receding.â
This case has brought into focus the striking influence Zilis wielded in OpenAIâs early days, despite being relatively unknown outside of Silicon Valley. The 40-year-old began her career at IBM working on cognitive computing before becoming a founding member of Bloomberg Beta, the venture capital arm of Bloomberg. A former Yale hockey player, she was named to Forbesâ â30 Under 30â list for venture capital in 2015, the year before she began advising OpenAI.
Last Stand
On Thursday, Musk used his likely last chance on the witness stand to implore the jury to concentrate on how Altman and other defendants allegedly fleeced him. He repeated a version of âyou just canât steal a charityâ at least five times.
But the first week made clear that Musk didnât impose any conditions when he donated about $38 million to OpenAI that would prevent it from restructuring into something closer to a for-profit business. He also waited years to file his lawsuit, despite having long expressed concerns that OpenAI was beginning to resemble a standard company. For Musk to get a favorable outcome, the jury and the judge will need to be convinced that he filed his lawsuit in a timely manner and that his donations created a legal promise that has been broken.
Musk told the court that his concerns about OpenAI straying from its mission to do social good with AI escalated over time, and they finally began boiling over around 2023. âOnly recently has it been obvious that the charity had been stolen,â he said Thursday. OpenAIâs attorneys questioned him about why his worries seemed to intensify the same year he founded his own AI lab, xAI, as a company rather than a nonprofit. He testified that xAIâs for-profit structure does pose some safety risks to society.
Judge Yvonne Gonzalez Rogers appeared skeptical about the timing when she spoke to Muskâs attorneys before the jury arrived. âIt is also ironic that your client, despite these risks, is creating a company that is in the exact space,â she said. âSo I suspect that there are plenty of people who donât want to put the future of humanity in Mr. Muskâs hands.â
The trial has already demanded a significant amount of time from the executives involved. Musk was in the courtroom for roughly 20 hours this week, eating into the 80 to 100 he testified that he typically works. Altman spent roughly 14 hours in court, while Brockman clocked roughly 16 hours. Itâs unclear how much time they will spend watching the case going forward, but Brockman is expected to testify as soon as Monday. Weâll be back with you then.
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